Bye Bye Diapers

February 23, 2016

Potty training. The one parenting hurdle I was scared to jump over. Not only can it be one of the most challenging parts of parenting, but’s its the last step before your baby is officially not a baby anymore.

bye bye diapers

What you need to know about potty training is that, with anything, every kid is different and you can’t compare your child’s potty training journey to another’s. It’s easy to get frustrated when kids a year or more younger than yours are potty trained, or when a friend’s kid just decides over night they’re going to use the toilet exclusively. I knew going in that our situation would be a little more complicated. For one, Liam is stubborn and does everything in his own time. But he also has three different places where he spends the majority of his time, home, his dad’s and the day home, which makes it more challenging than someone who might get to be at home every day to work on it. Remember to stop comparing and just focus on my own kid was key for me. It doesn’t matter if your child is trained at one year or four, everyone eventually learns.

We started the process shortly after Liam’s second birthday by trying to get him to announce after he’d gone in his diaper and then get him to tell us before he had to go. I started to worry that he’d be five before he’d ever tell anyone when he’d gone. He would probably be content to sit in a wet or dirty diaper for hours without saying anything. Knowing he had the fundamentals down from showing him what to do, using toys to show him how it’s done, reading books, etc, we just kept encouraging him but never making a big deal out of it.

His third birthday came and went. By this point we had tried bribing I’m with candy or small toys (Lego men are his jam) but he lost interest and the bribes weren’t working. I never pushed, but always encouraged and reminded him. When it started to get frustrating, I’d back off and try again later. In January, I decided to introduce a chart to him. I found some Mickey Mouse stickers and loaded up with Lego guys. The rules were he could put a sticker on the chart every time he used the toilet. At the end of a row, he’d get a new Lego guy and when he filled up the chart we would go pick a new toy our at the store. As soon as I told him this, he knew he wanted to buy a “light saber that turned on” and it was game on.

It didn’t take him long to catch on or to fill up his chart. He was so proud when he went to pick out his light saber and his new big boy underwear. But this didn’t mean he was fully potty trained. Number two was still an issue so we made a new chart and he only got a sticker for pooping. Progress was a little slower here, and it’s definitely taken some time for him to catch on at both my house, his dad’s and the day home, but he’s almost at the end of that second chart. He’s almost exclusively wearing his big boy underwear, aside from at night time where he wears pull-ups. I’m so happy that I decided to take a casual approach to potty training. I truly believe that this happened when he was ready and with the right motivators in place.


Right as Liam started his chart, we were sent a pack of Huggies Pull-Ups from Influenster. He loves them for the Mickey Mouse graphic and easily pulls them up and down the same as his big boy underwear. He’s always quick to change out of them in the morning if he pees in the night because they turn cold when they get wet. Although, when we first started doing the chart, this wouldn’t bother him during the day.

My advice for parents starting out their potty training journey?

  • Let your child pick out their own toilet seat.
  • Let them watch you go and explain what you’re doing. Use their favourite toys to demonstrate, read books, watch videos, etc so they get the basics
  • Make it their idea. Instead of asking if they have to go, remind them to tell you when they have to go.
  • If it’s not working, don’t push it. Try again in a few more weeks.
  • Use positive reinforcement. Reward them when they’ve done good, but don’t punish them if they have an accident.
  • Be prepared to do lots of laundry and clean your bathroom a lot more frequently (especially if you have a boy)
  • Be patient. Don’t get frustrated. Don’t compare. Your child will not be in diapers forever.

Any other potty training tips to add? 

Disclaimer: I received a package of Huggies Pull-Ups for testing purposes through Influenster. All opinions are my own! Thanks Influenster!

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  • Reply
    Brie @ A Slice of Brie
    February 23, 2016 at 9:48 am

    Woohoo, Liam!! I agree – every kid is so different, and it’s great that you acknowledged that and let Liam become potty trained on his own turns. It’s so hard not to compare, I know, but like you say – they all get potty trained eventually! 😉

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      February 23, 2016 at 7:08 pm

      Yes! It was seriously not something that I wanted to be a big stress. I’ve seen lots of parents just at wits end trying to get their kid trained and I didn’t want to be that way. I’m glad that for the most part, it was fairly painless.

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    February 23, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    I so agree with in their own time and not to push. Kailey has been off and on interested since 18 months old. Right now she is in a non interested phase. It will come back. We have used the Potty Time all. She loves the videos and she is only allowed to watch them while sitting in the potty, so it’s an incentive that works. She’s only just turned two so we know she won’t have it down for awhile yet. Looking forward to the days though when there will be no messes on the floor. Lol.

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      February 23, 2016 at 7:05 pm

      Oh I didn’t know there was an app. Liam would have liked that for sure. Good luck!

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    February 23, 2016 at 2:41 pm

    Great tips!! Good job Liam! Like you said, every child is different and it comes in time. There is no medal for having your child potty trained early! I’m in no rush to PT Leo but I can already tell he will probably be a lot different than A.

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      February 23, 2016 at 7:05 pm

      Thank you for sending me the three day method so long ago! While I didn’t go that route, I still learned from it!

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    February 23, 2016 at 4:26 pm

    Yay Liam!!! So proud of him! And you are right, all kids will eventually get there no matter what.

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      February 23, 2016 at 7:04 pm

      Right, it’s so not worth stressing about.

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    February 29, 2016 at 8:30 pm

    Woo hoo, way to go Liam! I’m really dreading this part of parenthood, but our dayhome lady said that she is more than willing to help get them trained, which is awesome

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      March 2, 2016 at 5:58 pm

      I think it would be so much more helpful having the day home in on the process. Honestly, the whole thing wasn’t as bad as I anticipated so I wouldn’t fret over it.

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    Kaella On The Run
    March 3, 2016 at 3:26 pm

    YES!! Every child is different! GO LIAM!!

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    March 19, 2016 at 12:30 am

    Loved reading this. Very helpful for future reference:)

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